Father Knows Best (Day 2)

The Command to Keep Asking
“What God does in you while you pray is as important as what He does for you when He answers.”
Matthew 7:7–8 (ESV)
"Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks it will be opened."
Devotional Thought
Yesterday we talked about how prayer can feel pointless when we don’t see the answers we expect. Today I want to show you something in the original language that completely changes how we read this promise from Jesus.
When Jesus says “Ask, and it will be given to you,” we read it in English and think He’s telling us to ask once and then wait. But here’s what I need you to know. The Greek verbs Jesus uses here are present imperative, which means continuous action. It’s not “ask once.” It’s KEEP asking. KEEP seeking. KEEP knocking.
So why the repetition? Because the Father isn’t just interested in meeting your needs. He wants to work in you as much as He wants to provide for you. What God does in you while you pray is as important as what He does for you when He answers.
Think about it just like a farmer working his field. When you plow the same ground repeatedly, you’re not wasting time because nothing’s growing yet. You’re preparing the soil so that when the seed comes, it has the best possible chance to take root. Every time you bring that prayer back to God, He’s working the soil of your heart, preparing you for what He wants to give.
Here’s what that means practically. Just because God is not answering your prayer immediately does not mean He’s going to refuse you indefinitely. The delay isn’t denial. It’s preparation.
Even the apostle Paul wrestled with unanswered prayer. In 2 Corinthians 12:8, he writes that three times he pleaded with the Lord about his thorn in the flesh. Three times. The apostle Paul. The man who wrote half the New Testament. He pleaded with God and received a no. But the no wasn’t rejection. It was redirection. God’s grace and power became the better gift than the healing Paul requested.
Ok so this is not prosperity gospel. This isn’t name it and claim it. Because James gives us some crucial balance in James 4:3. He writes, “You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your passions.”
See, the promise isn’t a blank check. It’s not about perfecting a formula. It’s about aligning our motives with the Father’s heart. God always gives good things, but He’s not interested in funding our selfishness.
That’s why we have to ask ourselves honest questions. Am I praying with demands or with trust? Am I bringing my requests to God with an open hand or a clenched fist? Do I want what I want, or do I want what He knows is best?
The incredible thing about verse 8 is that it starts with “For,” which gives us the reason for confidence. “For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks it will be opened.” This is a promise grounded in the character of God as Father.
But here’s where we need to be careful. When Jesus promises that everyone who asks receives, He’s not saying everyone gets exactly what they requested. He’s saying everyone who asks receives what the Father knows is good. And tomorrow we’re going to discover why that distinction matters more than you might think.
When Jesus says “Ask, and it will be given to you,” we read it in English and think He’s telling us to ask once and then wait. But here’s what I need you to know. The Greek verbs Jesus uses here are present imperative, which means continuous action. It’s not “ask once.” It’s KEEP asking. KEEP seeking. KEEP knocking.
So why the repetition? Because the Father isn’t just interested in meeting your needs. He wants to work in you as much as He wants to provide for you. What God does in you while you pray is as important as what He does for you when He answers.
Think about it just like a farmer working his field. When you plow the same ground repeatedly, you’re not wasting time because nothing’s growing yet. You’re preparing the soil so that when the seed comes, it has the best possible chance to take root. Every time you bring that prayer back to God, He’s working the soil of your heart, preparing you for what He wants to give.
Here’s what that means practically. Just because God is not answering your prayer immediately does not mean He’s going to refuse you indefinitely. The delay isn’t denial. It’s preparation.
Even the apostle Paul wrestled with unanswered prayer. In 2 Corinthians 12:8, he writes that three times he pleaded with the Lord about his thorn in the flesh. Three times. The apostle Paul. The man who wrote half the New Testament. He pleaded with God and received a no. But the no wasn’t rejection. It was redirection. God’s grace and power became the better gift than the healing Paul requested.
Ok so this is not prosperity gospel. This isn’t name it and claim it. Because James gives us some crucial balance in James 4:3. He writes, “You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your passions.”
See, the promise isn’t a blank check. It’s not about perfecting a formula. It’s about aligning our motives with the Father’s heart. God always gives good things, but He’s not interested in funding our selfishness.
That’s why we have to ask ourselves honest questions. Am I praying with demands or with trust? Am I bringing my requests to God with an open hand or a clenched fist? Do I want what I want, or do I want what He knows is best?
The incredible thing about verse 8 is that it starts with “For,” which gives us the reason for confidence. “For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks it will be opened.” This is a promise grounded in the character of God as Father.
But here’s where we need to be careful. When Jesus promises that everyone who asks receives, He’s not saying everyone gets exactly what they requested. He’s saying everyone who asks receives what the Father knows is good. And tomorrow we’re going to discover why that distinction matters more than you might think.
Application Questions
- When you pray repeatedly for something and don’t see immediate results, do you view that as God working in you or God ignoring you
- Looking back at past prayers, can you identify a time when God’s delay was actually His way of preparing you for something better?
Today's Challenge
Take that prayer you wrote down yesterday. Today, bring it back to God with this new perspective. Don’t demand an answer. Don’t set a timeline. Just keep asking, trusting that He’s working both in the situation and in you.
Today's Prayer
Father, forgive me for treating prayer like a vending machine where I insert requests and expect immediate results. Teach me to keep asking, keep seeking, keep knocking, not because I’m trying to wear You down, but because I’m learning to trust You more. Work in me while I wait. Shape my motives. Align my desires with Your heart. Help me to see that the process of persistent prayer is transforming me into someone ready to receive what You know is truly good. In Jesus’ name, amen.
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